Some people are just looking for drama
These people are toxic
If you put a frog in boiling hot water, he will jump out immediately.
If you put a frog in room temperature water and slowly boil the water, the frog will adapt to the heat and eventually bathe in the water in its own death.
If you spend too much time with people who are always seeking out hostile environments, you will soon become numb to this behavior. Before you know it, you will surround yourself with toxic friends.
It is important to call out people for the behavior you do not approve of, even if hidden under the veil of a “joke”
It is always better to make an uncomfortable decision so you can avoid disastrous situations.