I was unwilling to believe this at first but I honestly think one of the biggest life hurdles/obstacles is learning how to avoid self-sabotage.
We often hold ourselves back from the things we truly want in life
Maybe out of fear that achieving our dream will leave us listless.
Maybe we don’t believe we deserve the good life, or true love, or true happiness, or genuine peace, or whatever virtue it is that you seek.
So we create excuses. We build up these walls and force ourselves to run into them.
Brick by brick, these obstacles eventually stop us from getting anything done.
And we’ve now built a wall surrounding ourselves, feeling safe from life’s arrows. But building this obstacle around you is self-sabotage. You’re constricted. No more freedom.
Self-sabotage is ugly. It’s an internal battle against yourself.
But you need to fight it. You need to break down those walls.
Freedom is virtue.
and I intend to use it