I was requested to answer this question on Quora, a social media writing platform a few days ago. My answer gained 30K+ views and 400+ upvotes pretty quickly, so I am posting my response here.
- Put your phone on airplane mode/Turn off Notifications
- Learn self-control and live in the moment. The PHONE is the tool; don’t let your phone control you.
- You don’t need to check SnapChat every 10 minutes
- Or Instagram
- Unless I am expecting important phone calls or texts/emails, I always have my phone on airplane mode. I turn my data back on when, and ONLY when I need it, for certain situations.
- It also extends the battery life of your phone. (No constant phone checking and notifications)
- Read everyday
- Whether it be news, books, fiction, self-help, or articles online. I even count Quora. Basically, you need to consume knowledge.
- I am currently reading: Counting by 7’s
- The book follows a genius girl who is fascinated with medical conditions and plants. The story begins with the sad news that her adopted parents, who loved her dearly, sadly passes away in a car crash. I am only ~20% through the book. Started reading it yesterday.
- Dance
- People who dance are happier. I don’t care if you do it in public, in your bedroom, or run off to do it privately in the bathroom. (I may or may not have done that before)
- Laugh. At yourself.
- Self-humility is one of the greatest qualities a human being can have. It reminds you that you are, first of all, not perfect, but more importantly, that you are human.
- Also, if you don’t have past embarrassing moments to laugh about and have a little chuckle in your head, then you aren’t living life and taking enough risks.
- Wake up with a consistent morning routine that helps activate and prepare your body and brain for the day. Here is mine:
- Wake up and do some quick stretching + 10–20 pushups and then I jump around a little to turn my body on
- Do your bathroom routine (number 1 or 2…whatever you do in the morning)
- I BRUSH MY TEETH WITH MY LEFT HAND (non-dominant)
- This gets your brain flowing in the morning
- I also plan to become ambidextrous one day…one day…
- Dance to music while brushing teeth/putting on clothes/on the loo
- Drink a large cup of water. Water stimulates the brain and body.
- Write before bed
- Journal. Quora. Personal blog. Gratitude list. Etc.
- Be OKAY
- Interpret this however way you want to. Love yourself. Love others. Just BE OKAY at the end of the day.
Grateful Day 79: I am grateful for how good it feels after a good workout.
Reading Day 20:
- I am currently reading: Counting by 7’s
- The book follows a genius girl who is fascinated with medical conditions and plants. The story begins with the sad news that her adopted parents, who loved her dearly, sadly passes away in a car crash. I am only ~20% through the book. Started reading it yesterday.
Quotes:
“It has been my experience that rewarding and heartbreaking often go hand in hand”
“I am asking you to pay attention ins a new way and view it all as being Alive. With a capital A”
“Because in my opinion it’s not really a great idea to see people as one thing. Every person has lots of ingredients to make them into what is always a one-of-a-kind creation. We are all imperfect genetic stews”
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